How to stop the pain of HeartBreak, and grow right into the life that’s waiting for you.
I don’t know if you’ve ever experienced the feeling of having your heart hurt or even like a lot of us describe it, having your heart broken. If you have or if you’re going through this right now then this video may be useful for you.
I know the feeling of feeling like your heart is broken and the extreme pain that feels like, it feels like your life is over. It feels like your life is ending. It feels like life that you wanted, a life that you wished for is not only gone, but will never come back. And it is the most intense pain.
I’ve felt the experience of having so much, so much love to give and so much love to express and yet not feel like there’s a place to put it, not feel like there’s a place to express it and imagine like being a tortured artist like Van Gogh and having this image in your mind so clearly, this painting, and yet you don’t have a canvas. There’s no place to share this vision that you have.
Heartbreak takes a lot of different forms. But here’s what I’ve discovered. What I’ve experienced in my own life is that that pain, like all pain, is feedback and it exists to get our attention so that we can become more present to what we’re actually feeling and if we can have the courage, if we can have the fortitude, if you can just have the guts to hang in there and just let that pain bring you some sort of message, then I think that invariably what’s on the other side of that message isn’t to shut down, it’s not to feel that you just have to live with this heartbreak forever.
I think instead this feeling of heartbreak is to wake us up. In my own life I’ve experienced that on the other side of this pain is this unbelievable expanded capacity to not only give love, but to receive love.
You get cracked apart and you get broken, but you can never be actually broken. Your old self may be gone, your old heart might not fit anymore, but that’s because you’ve been expanded and so if you’re experiencing this, if you’re experiencing the pain of not feeling the love that you need and not feeling the expression of the love that’s inside of you, then maybe this is a signal, maybe this is a sign that there’s more for you to give and that there are more creative ways for you to give.
Maybe this is a chance for you to take this inner spark and decide to do something a little bit different, decide to express in a whole new way.
Whatever it is I know that this pain isn’t permanent and if you continue to love yourself and if you continue to express yourself in an authentic way, if you continue to honor your vision, this world has a very remarkable way of filling in all of that new capacity with something that right now you might not even be able to comprehend, something so powerful and something so beautiful that maybe right now you don’t even have the words to describe it, but it’s there.
You really can go from heartbreak to heart wake. This can be your reality.