If you think you need to fix your “relationship” with money, it’s time to update the way you think about wealth.
A lot of people want to fix their relationship with money, as if money has its own energy. I used to be one of those people, and I used to think, ah, I want more money flowing in my life, so I need to improve my energy with my relationship with money, so I would just sit there and feel the energy of the money, and what does the money feel like, and I would feel it and then I would open my eyes and I would look around and, guess what, no more money coming in.
Here’s why. Money doesn’t have any energy of its own. So you can’t have a relationship with something that doesn’t have any energy. Money is a resource. It doesn’t have any energy of its own. It’s just a resource. So, when your fuel is running low, you don’t freak out. You go and get some more resource. You just go and fill up your tank again.
There’s no energy around it, there’s no relationship, you just go get some more. So how do you apply this? How do you do this with money? It’s really simple. From now on, when money comes into your life, in any amount, you appreciate the arrival while noticing what you have done to make that happen.
Because you’re the one that’s in control here. All the money that’s flowing in right now is because of what you’ve been doing. And as you begin to a appreciate the flow of money that’s coming in, what you appreciate appreciates. What you give your positive attention to actually increases. Don’t take my word for it. Test this for yourself.
And from now on, when money comes into your life, greet it with this attitude of active appreciation and then watch, as every day, you begin to have more and more evidence of your new financial reality.