Have you ever experienced the pain of losing Love? Here’s how you can find that special spark again.
Have you ever experienced being in love? Feeling love with another person, that experience of being so connected where you’re thinking the same things, you’re enjoying the same things, you’re appreciating the same things, you’re appreciating each other. Just so connected. So, deep in that feeling. So much that sometimes you even finish each others’ sentences. It’s an amazing feeling, maybe one of the best.
Have you also experienced when that feeling starts to wear off a little bit? Where that connection begins to diminish. Perhaps you found yourself just going through the motions, just repeating the same thing that used to make you both feel really good and now it’s just not doing the trick. This is a scary place because you have the memory of the love. You have the desire for the love and you still care for each other but that spark, that fire seems to have gone down. You know, it’s that fear of losing connection that actually prevents so many people from even being in a relationship. Or sometimes if you’re in a relationship, you’re worried that the connection won’t last and so you try and do even more to keep it going. This creates a lot of friction.
So, if this something that is relevant for you, if you’d like to keep this experience of love and light, and beauty, expanding and growing, then here’s a few things that might help. First of all, this feeling of love, being in love, what is this thing called love?
Love is a feeling. It’s a sensation. Maybe love is a frequency that we can tune to and when you do, when you find that feeling, when you’re in that frequency of love, where do you feel it? You feel it inside. You feel it in your own body, in your own mind, in your own heart. And since you’re feeling it inside, doesn’t it just make sense that if you begin to take a little more responsibility for finding that feeling on your own, independent of what someone else may or may not be doing.
That is, you take responsibility for finding your own frequency of love, feeling that love for yourself. Feeling that love inside of yourself. Feeling that love for your life. For the things and the experiences and the people that are in your life unconditionally.
With this active appreciation, as you begin to feel that frequency of love inside of you which is the only place that it can exist, and you begin to live from that place. You begin to feel in love more of the time, the most amazing thing can happen. You can experience a shift in your reality. You can experience a shift in the way that you’re seeing people. You can even experience a shift in the way that people treat you because at some level isn’t everyone else sort of just a reflection of what we are emitting? The energy that we’re in.
So, as you make this decision every day, sometimes many times a day, to be in that space of love and appreciation, you can observe as other people around you including this one person. You can experience a shift in how you see them. And you begin to observe qualities in them that maybe you hadn’t seen in a while. You begin to see behaviors from this person and you begin to appreciate those behaviors in a new way.
And on some level, maybe that person is feeling, and seeing, and observing, the changes that have happened in you. Then little by little that love in each of you comes out again to play. This is within your power. It’s all inside of you and you can do it.